March 28, 2026

Ep 102: Chasing Trophies, but Missing Crowns

Ep 102: Chasing Trophies, but Missing Crowns
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Ep 102: Chasing Trophies, but Missing Crowns

​What can a childhood trophy teach us about what matters?

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Topic:

  • ​What can a childhood trophy teach us about what matters?

 

Discussion Questions:

  • What is one "trophy" you are currently chasing, and what is a step you can take to refocus on the eternal?
  • What daily habit can you intentionally practice this week to develop a more Christ-like character?
  • Where in your life are you most tempted to compromise your character, and what specific boundary or change can you put in place to guard against that?

Resources For This Episode:

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What can a childhood trophy 
teach us about what really 

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matters? 
Well, we'll talk about that in 

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just a SEC. 
Welcome to the show. 

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I'm Daniel Dalp and this is for 
your Sunday morning drive where 

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the short podcast with the goal 
of providing some motivation, 

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Dr. and encouragement on your 
way to worship and helping you 

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recenter your mind on those 
spiritual things on a hectic 

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Sunday morning. 
Before we get started this 

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morning, I wanted to give a big 
thank you to my friend David 

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Rogers for coming in clutch last
week when my voice was even 

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worse than it is now. 
Don't worry, we'll get through 

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this episode together. 
I appreciate you listening. 

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Let's go ahead and get the show 
on the road this morning. 

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This is episode one O 2. 
Chasing trophies but missing 

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crowns. 
Let's go to church. 

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Are we there yet? 
Have you been enjoying the big 

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dance, the college basketball 
tradition of March Madness? 

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If so, then more power to you. 
I have not. 

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Unsurprisingly to many of you, I
am just not a sports guy. 

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Now, that's not for lack of 
trying. 

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OK, well, definitely lack of 
trying on my part, but there was

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a major effort on the part of my
parents when I was a kid. 

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I was in everything from karate 
to basketball to hockey, and 

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each one I was a more dismal 
failure than the last. 

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I guess it just didn't take. 
But it's all good. 

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I've made peace with it and I 
have lived my life as a happy 

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nerd ever since. 
I was, however, reminded of this

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phase in my life over the last 
few years. 

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I found myself in my childhood 
bedroom and tucked back in a 

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closet I found an old basketball
trophy. 

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A trophy, mind you, from 1997. 
I would have been seven years 

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old. 
I'll be sure to put a picture on

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the website. 
It was from one of those 

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Christian kids leagues that 
gives everyone a trophy. 

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And since it was the 90s, like 
most trophies handed out to kids

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during and since, it wasn't 
deserved. 

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But the humorous aspect of this 
trophy is that since they had to

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find something to give me a 
trophy for, and since I don't 

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think I made a shot the entire 
season, they ended up giving me 

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a trophy with best Christian 
attitude inscribed upon it for 

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memorizing the most Bible 
verses. 

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Certainly a trophy not earned. 
But what a conversation piece. 

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And you better believe my family
loves bringing it up whenever 

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they get the chance and it's all
in good fun. 

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But you know, as I was 
reflecting on that trophy and 

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all the jokes it's prompted over
the years, I couldn't help but 

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ask a question of myself. 
I wonder if it would still be 

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awarded to me today, all these 
years later. 

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Certainly no, not for 
basketball, but for, quote, best

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Christian attitude, and after a 
brief self-assessment, I'd have 

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to say probably not. 
I wish it would though. 

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And that got me to thinking 
about other trophies that we 

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cling on to or that we seek 
after that are ultimately, at 

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the end of the day, of little 
value compared to our genuine 

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Christ likeness. 
What do we value that God 

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doesn't? 
Do we strive after the prize of 

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wealth and fame? 
Do we labor for the trophy of 

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image and reputation? 
Do we covet the trappings of 

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applause and recognition? 
Do we cling to the crown of 

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busyness and productivity? 
Or do we long to wear the medal 

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of material success? 
You know the Bible tells us 

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these things are all temporal, 
not eternal. 

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First Corinthians chapter 924 
and 25 says do you not know that

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those who run in a race all run,
but only one receives the prize?

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Run in such a way that you may 
win. 

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Everyone who competes in the 
games exercises self-control in 

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all things, so they do it to 
obtain a perishable wreath. 

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But we and imperishable Paul, 
who pinned those words, also 

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asks us to continue to shift our
perspective to what matters as 

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he shifts his focus to do the 
same in some of the last words 

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he ever gives to Timothy in 
Second Timothy chapter 4 six 

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through 8, he says, For I am 
already being poured out as a 

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drink offering, and the time of 
my departure has come. 

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I have fought the good fight, I 
have finished the course, I have

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kept the fake. 
And in the future, there is 

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reserved for me the crown of 
righteousness, which the Lord, 

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the righteous judge, will award 
to me on that day, and not only 

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to me, but also to all who have 
loved his appearing. 

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That's a pretty impactful 
message, Timothy. 

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The trophies we seek after and 
what we hold to be important 

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matter. 
So I won't get my hopes up for 

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another basketball trophy. 
That would be an exercise in 

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futility. 
But I pray that I can, day by 

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day, live in a way that might 
reveal the heart that desires a 

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Christian attitude more than the
passing pleasures of a dying 

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world. 
And it's my hope that we can all

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do a little better to value the 
crown of life more than the 

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trappings of life itself. 
Because in the big dance of 

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life, eternity matters. 
And if we continue to March to 

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the beat of a worldly standard 
instead of the upward call of 

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God, well, that's just madness. 
Those are my thoughts for your 

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Sunday morning drive. 
Now it's time to hear yours. 

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Our discussion questions this 
week are what is 1 trophy you 

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are currently chasing and what 
is a step you can take to 

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refocus on the eternal? 
What daily habit can you 

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intentionally practice this week
to develop a more Christ like 

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character and where in your life
are you most tempted to 

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compromise your character? 
What specific boundary or change

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can you put in place to guard 
against that? 

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Hey, this week especially, thank
you so much for listening. 

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I know it's been a rough listen 
but I appreciate you sticking 

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with me. 
Don't take your eye off the 

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crown now. 
Keep moving forward and I'll see

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you Sunday.