Ep 84: Freedom From Want
Has a Black Friday mindset robbed us of an opportunity to be truly thankful?
Topic:
- Has a Black Friday mindset robbed us of an opportunity to be truly thankful?
Discussion Questions:
- Are we truly thankful for what God has given us both physically and spiritually?
- What steps can we take to truly be content with what we have?
- How can slowing down and savoring the blessings of God, help us to lead a more thankful life?
Resources For This Episode:
Freedom From Want:
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Has a Black Friday mindset
robbed us of an opportunity to
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be truly thankful?
We'll take a look at that in a
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bit.
Welcome to the show.
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I'm Daniel Dalp and this is for
your Sunday morning drive.
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The short podcast with the goal
of providing some motivation,
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Dr. and encouragement on your
way to worship and helping you
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recenter your mind on.
Spiritual things.
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On those hectic Sunday mornings,
this time of year can be really
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hard on a lot of people.
So if there's someone that you
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know of this week that is alone,
that is going to be by the
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themselves on Thanksgiving or
need somewhere to go.
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Why don't you invite them to sit
around your table, fill their
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belly with some good food and
take some time to be truly
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thankful.
Let's go ahead and get the show
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on the road today.
This is episode 84, freedom from
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want.
Let's go to church.
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Are we there yet?
Well, Thanksgiving approaches
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and I sure hope that you have a
joyous one, filled with family
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that truly cares and devoid of
any of those petty squabbles
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that seem to separate so many of
us.
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I hope you have abundant food.
Plenty of.
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Laughter.
Love.
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And great memories.
In fact, I hope that your
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Thanksgiving is nothing short of
Rockwellian.
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And if you've never heard that
term before, let me define it
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for you.
It means relating to or
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characteristic of the idealized
yes, but also sentimental and
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realistic American life depicted
in the artwork of Norman
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Rockwell.
Many times it describes scenes
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that are wholesome, everyday
moments that often evoke the
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nostalgia for a simpler time.
And I understand that my younger
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audience may have never heard of
Norman Rockwell.
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So you'll find the painting I'm
talking about LinkedIn, the show
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notes of today's episode.
The truly Rockwellian
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Thanksgiving is idealized in the
painting that you may or may not
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be familiar with called Freedom
from Want.
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And that really embodies what
Thanksgiving is all about,
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doesn't it?
That we are blessed that even
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with the meager things, we can
be satisfied that we have what
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we really need, so we are free
from the chains of want.
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It's a nice notion, but at least
in my experience, not always the
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case.
And that's a shame.
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Because, friends, God has
blessed us so, so richly.
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And I love Thanksgiving, but I'm
afflicted about the day after.
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Black Friday.
Because more and more, it seems,
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the want of Black Friday
encroaches on what is.
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Supposed to be.
This yearly day of contentment,
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satisfaction and gratitude.
And my worry is that this also.
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Deeply impacts.
Us spiritually, and I'll be the
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first to admit I've taken
advantage of a Black Friday
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sailor too.
And on the surface, I don't
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think there's anything wrong
with doing so.
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But on another level, there's
always something about its.
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Juxta.
Position right after
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Thanksgiving Day, that's always
felt.
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Gross or?
Unsettling, or maybe even
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hypocritical is.
The way to put it, I'll give you
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a personal example.
I have distinct memories of
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years gone by.
Where the?
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Turkey is still warm and the
table is still cluttered, and
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instead of just enjoying the
moment of being thankful, of
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being content, I remember myself
and other family members would
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just bust out those Black Friday
ads and start circling, looking
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for the deals, looking at the
new and being filled by the
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want.
And looking back on it, it seems
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pretty devoid of gratitude.
Not exactly.
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What is?
Depicted in Rockwell's Freedom
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from Want.
Especially when we.
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Realize the.
Spiritual impact that this could
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and probably is having on us.
In the well loved 23rd Psalm,
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David says the Lord is my
shepherd, I shall not want.
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God provides us with the rest,
the guidance, the protection and
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sustenance that we really need.
And when we have His faithful
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care, what more could we
possibly ask for?
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But when we are ever seeking
that next thing, or God forbid,
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cannot take even a day's
breather to show him true
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Thanksgiving, what does that say
about our trust and our
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appreciation in Him?
I've always loved what Paul has
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to say to the brethren in
Thessalonica in First
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Thessalonians chapter 5 as he
instructs them in Christian
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conduct.
He says the following in verses
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16 through 18.
Rejoice always.
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Pray without ceasing in
everything.
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Give thanks, for this is God's
will for you in Christ Jesus.
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And many times we tend to focus
on this in terms that prayer
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should be continual, but Paul's
emphasis is much more about the
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mindset and the content of our
prayers then on the ACT itself.
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Pray continually, giving thanks.
Have a thankful heart
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continually.
Now I could very well be wrong,
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but this seems to imply more
than just a passing thanks God
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and the spiritual equivalent of
a high 5 on the way to seek out
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more or to indulge in
extravagant abundance.
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Right, Hebrews. 13 verse five
really drives this thought home.
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Make sure that your care is free
from the love of money, being
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content with what you have.
For he himself has said, I will
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never desert you, nor will I
ever forsake you.
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Don't seek after greed.
Be content.
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And what I love about this verse
is that it seems to have
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something to say about what we
should be content with.
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God's faithfulness.
That's where contentment flows
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from.
That's what should compel us to
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Thanksgiving.
And I think that's worth more
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than a day, a year, and a rushed
one at that.
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Now look.
I'm not saying that if you enjoy
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getting out on Black Friday.
Or that if you get.
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A rush from finding a good deal
and taking advantage of some.
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Lower prices.
That you are somehow in the
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wrong.
However, it is my plea that as
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we approach what has been a
centuries old tradition of
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contentment and gratitude that
we take the time to truly
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recognize how blessed we are by
the Almighty and say thanks.
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That we give thanks to the One
who truly makes us free from
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want.
Or at least help clear the table
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before breaking out those ads.
Because showing our thanks to
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God in an honest way.
It's not just this sanitized
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Rockwellian idealism, but it's
godly thanks given to a great
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God.
And that's worth the time it
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takes to do it right.
Well, those are my thoughts for
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your Sunday morning drive.
Now it's time to hear yours.
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Our discussion questions for
this week are, are we truly
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thankful for what God has given
us physically and spiritually?
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What steps can we take to be
true, truly content with what we
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have, And how can slowing down
and savoring the blessings of
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God help us to lead a more
thankful life?
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Hey, I hope you have an awesome
Thanksgiving.
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Spend it with some good friends
and family, enjoy it, be
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thankful and I'll see you
Sunday.
