Oct. 25, 2025
Ep 80: Don't Skip That House!
What can observing trick-or-treaters teach us about missing out on growth?
Topic:
- What can observing trick-or-treaters teach us about missing out on growth?
Discussion Questions:
- What are some reasons that we only seek those surface level aspects of Christianity instead of delving deeper?
- How far are we willing to go in order to receive the richest of God's spiritual blessings?
- Looking back on life, what areas of spiritual growth have we missed out on because we were not willing to apply ourselves?
1
00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,320
Well, good morning and welcome
to the show.
2
00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:05,280
I'm Daniel Dalp and this is for
your Sunday morning drive.
3
00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:08,080
The short podcast with the goal
of providing you some
4
00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:11,080
motivation, Dr. and
encouragement on your way to
5
00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:15,120
worship and helping you recenter
your mind on those spiritual
6
00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,400
things on hectic Sunday
mornings.
7
00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,720
We are brought to you in
partnership with the Ministry
8
00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,880
League network of podcasts.
Ministry League offers many
9
00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:26,560
great resources free of charge
and also many other wonderful
10
00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,440
podcasts.
You can check them out at
11
00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,720
ministryleague.com or you can
download their app.
12
00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,200
I sure hope you're having a
great day, and I hope you have
13
00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:37,640
the most whimsical of Halloween
shenanigans planned for Friday.
14
00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,160
Be safe.
And if you don't mind, save me
15
00:00:40,160 --> 00:00:42,640
your Reese's Cups.
Well, anyway, let's get the show
16
00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:44,920
on the road this morning.
This is episode 80.
17
00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,360
Don't skip that house.
Let's go to church.
18
00:00:54,360 --> 00:01:09,240
Are we there yet?
Well, it's the most wonderful
19
00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,080
time of the year.
This Friday is Halloween.
20
00:01:12,320 --> 00:01:15,560
Ah, that magic time of year
where our children rush from
21
00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:19,120
door to door seeking the best
treats and the parents tag
22
00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,400
along.
All the while we are mentally
23
00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:25,560
calculating just how severe the
dad tax is going to be imposed
24
00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:29,120
upon that sugary horde.
My kids know to at least save me
25
00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,920
a peanut buttercup or two.
Over the last few years,
26
00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:35,480
watching my own kids and the
shambling masses of other
27
00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,680
children, all of them rushing
door to door on Halloween night,
28
00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:42,200
I've noticed something that some
houses get skipped for several
29
00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,560
reasons.
Maybe the house is too creepy,
30
00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:46,320
or the porch light is turned
off.
31
00:01:46,320 --> 00:01:49,240
Maybe the driveway is too long
and the hill too steep.
32
00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:53,720
Or maybe they are notorious for
giving out what I am going to
33
00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,360
call, in my humble opinion,
trash candy.
34
00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,840
I'm looking at you boxes of
raisins, smarties, and Tootsie
35
00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,000
rolls.
Or that bag of pretzels.
36
00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,640
Anyway, I digress and feel free
to disagree with me, but just
37
00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,960
know that you're wrong.
But at the same time, other
38
00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,720
houses get flocked to because
they are well lit or maybe they
39
00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:15,320
have the Super cool decorations
outside like the 12 foot tall
40
00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:17,360
skeleton.
Maybe it's the home of a family
41
00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:19,840
member or a neighborhood icon
lives there.
42
00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:23,240
But more than likely they are
just famous for handing out the
43
00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,840
good stuff.
I'm talking the full size candy
44
00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,880
bars, the peanut butter cuffs,
the name brand chocolate.
45
00:02:28,920 --> 00:02:31,800
No joke, there's a dude in the
neighborhood where I take our
46
00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:35,600
kids that gives out grilled hot
dogs and a cup of hot chocolate.
47
00:02:35,640 --> 00:02:38,800
Yes, I know it's a weird
pairing, but man does it hit the
48
00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:42,280
spot on a chilly night.
And all of this to say that kids
49
00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,440
have their own hierarchy of
decision making when it comes
50
00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:49,720
down to what houses and what
treats are worth the risk, or
51
00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:54,280
rather worth the time.
A sort of juvenile cost benefit
52
00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,920
analysis, if you will.
And boy does that scale tip in
53
00:02:57,920 --> 00:03:01,040
favor of what is easy and what
is desirable.
54
00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,520
And that got me to thinking.
Sometimes I think we do the same
55
00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:08,240
thing spiritually on several
levels, but especially when it
56
00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,600
comes to things like our
spiritual disciplines.
57
00:03:10,640 --> 00:03:13,760
You know, we might gladly visit
the ones that feel rewarding,
58
00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:17,640
worship, an encouraging sermon
or those moments of answered
59
00:03:17,640 --> 00:03:19,640
prayer.
But maybe we skip those
60
00:03:19,640 --> 00:03:24,120
spiritual houses that feel or
look dark and difficult.
61
00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:28,320
Fasting, self examination,
solitude, perseverance and
62
00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:32,280
prayer, sacrificial service.
Maybe we are choosing those
63
00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,680
sweet practices and maybe
avoiding the ones that don't
64
00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:39,480
give us immediate satisfaction.
But following along with this
65
00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:45,280
metaphor, spiritual maturity
means knocking on every door of
66
00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,440
obedience, not just the ones
that give us the treats.
67
00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:52,200
Luke 16, verse 10.
The one who is faithful in very
68
00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:55,400
little things is also faithful
in much.
69
00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:59,600
And the one who is unrighteous
in a very little thing is also
70
00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,840
unrighteous in much.
Yes, we like the low hanging
71
00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:06,240
fruit, the spiritual equivalent
of candy from a bowl left on the
72
00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,800
porch with a note telling us
just to take one because it
73
00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:13,640
means no knocking, no waiting,
no thank you, no effort
74
00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,640
required.
And when that happens, sometimes
75
00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,200
we look down and we count our
sacks as full.
76
00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:23,600
First Timothy chapter 4 verse 7
says discipline yourself for
77
00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:26,120
godliness.
What blessings might we be
78
00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:29,160
missing out on by skipping those
other houses?
79
00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,560
I'm sure there are many and just
from the top of my head, some of
80
00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:35,560
those might be missing out on a
deeper understanding of
81
00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:39,080
scripture by only diving in at a
devotional level.
82
00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,680
Missing out on the value and the
life changing relationships of
83
00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:46,400
our brethren by treating them
instead as mere acquaintances
84
00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,920
and treating fellowship as an
afterthought.
85
00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:53,240
Maybe missing out on an
opportunity to rely fully on God
86
00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,600
by going ahead and trying it our
way first.
87
00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:01,000
And the list could go on and on.
But my point is, sometimes our
88
00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,160
sacks aren't as full as they
could be because we aren't
89
00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:08,520
taking the time to seek out the
freely given but hard won
90
00:05:08,840 --> 00:05:12,120
blessings of spiritual maturity.
So the next time that you're
91
00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:15,880
tempted to walk past an
opportunity to grow, don't.
92
00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:20,960
Because Jesus tells us to stop.
And and knock, Matthew Chapter 7
93
00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:24,200
verses 7:00 and 8:00.
Ask and it will be given to you.
94
00:05:24,280 --> 00:05:28,120
Seek and you will find.
Knock and it will be opened unto
95
00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,560
you for everyone who asks
receives, and the one who seeks
96
00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,160
finds.
And to the one who knocks, it
97
00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,840
will be opened when those
opportunities come along.
98
00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,520
Don't be tricked into missing
out on God's streets.
99
00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:44,440
Don't skip that house.
Stop and knock.
100
00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,280
Well, those are my thoughts for
your Sunday morning drive.
101
00:05:47,280 --> 00:05:50,240
Now it's time to hear yours.
Our discussion questions for
102
00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:54,200
this week are what are some
reasons that we only seek those
103
00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:57,760
surface level aspects of
Christianity instead of giving a
104
00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:01,000
deeper dive?
How far are we willing to go in
105
00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:05,000
order to receive the richest of
God's spiritual blessings?
106
00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:09,480
And looking back on life, what
areas of spiritual growth have
107
00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:13,240
we missed out on because we were
not willing to apply ourselves?
108
00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:17,600
And I'll throw in an extra what
is the best and worst Halloween
109
00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:19,160
candy?
Let me know what you think.
110
00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,440
I'd love to hear from you at for
your Sunday morning dr.com.
111
00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:25,200
I hope you have a wonderful day
and I'll see you Sunday.
112
00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:37,400
We're here.
00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,320
Well, good morning and welcome
to the show.
2
00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:05,280
I'm Daniel Dalp and this is for
your Sunday morning drive.
3
00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:08,080
The short podcast with the goal
of providing you some
4
00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:11,080
motivation, Dr. and
encouragement on your way to
5
00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:15,120
worship and helping you recenter
your mind on those spiritual
6
00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,400
things on hectic Sunday
mornings.
7
00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,720
We are brought to you in
partnership with the Ministry
8
00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,880
League network of podcasts.
Ministry League offers many
9
00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:26,560
great resources free of charge
and also many other wonderful
10
00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,440
podcasts.
You can check them out at
11
00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,720
ministryleague.com or you can
download their app.
12
00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,200
I sure hope you're having a
great day, and I hope you have
13
00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:37,640
the most whimsical of Halloween
shenanigans planned for Friday.
14
00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,160
Be safe.
And if you don't mind, save me
15
00:00:40,160 --> 00:00:42,640
your Reese's Cups.
Well, anyway, let's get the show
16
00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:44,920
on the road this morning.
This is episode 80.
17
00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,360
Don't skip that house.
Let's go to church.
18
00:00:54,360 --> 00:01:09,240
Are we there yet?
Well, it's the most wonderful
19
00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,080
time of the year.
This Friday is Halloween.
20
00:01:12,320 --> 00:01:15,560
Ah, that magic time of year
where our children rush from
21
00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:19,120
door to door seeking the best
treats and the parents tag
22
00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,400
along.
All the while we are mentally
23
00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:25,560
calculating just how severe the
dad tax is going to be imposed
24
00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:29,120
upon that sugary horde.
My kids know to at least save me
25
00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,920
a peanut buttercup or two.
Over the last few years,
26
00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:35,480
watching my own kids and the
shambling masses of other
27
00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,680
children, all of them rushing
door to door on Halloween night,
28
00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:42,200
I've noticed something that some
houses get skipped for several
29
00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,560
reasons.
Maybe the house is too creepy,
30
00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:46,320
or the porch light is turned
off.
31
00:01:46,320 --> 00:01:49,240
Maybe the driveway is too long
and the hill too steep.
32
00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:53,720
Or maybe they are notorious for
giving out what I am going to
33
00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,360
call, in my humble opinion,
trash candy.
34
00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,840
I'm looking at you boxes of
raisins, smarties, and Tootsie
35
00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,000
rolls.
Or that bag of pretzels.
36
00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,640
Anyway, I digress and feel free
to disagree with me, but just
37
00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,960
know that you're wrong.
But at the same time, other
38
00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,720
houses get flocked to because
they are well lit or maybe they
39
00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:15,320
have the Super cool decorations
outside like the 12 foot tall
40
00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:17,360
skeleton.
Maybe it's the home of a family
41
00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:19,840
member or a neighborhood icon
lives there.
42
00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:23,240
But more than likely they are
just famous for handing out the
43
00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,840
good stuff.
I'm talking the full size candy
44
00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,880
bars, the peanut butter cuffs,
the name brand chocolate.
45
00:02:28,920 --> 00:02:31,800
No joke, there's a dude in the
neighborhood where I take our
46
00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:35,600
kids that gives out grilled hot
dogs and a cup of hot chocolate.
47
00:02:35,640 --> 00:02:38,800
Yes, I know it's a weird
pairing, but man does it hit the
48
00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:42,280
spot on a chilly night.
And all of this to say that kids
49
00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,440
have their own hierarchy of
decision making when it comes
50
00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:49,720
down to what houses and what
treats are worth the risk, or
51
00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:54,280
rather worth the time.
A sort of juvenile cost benefit
52
00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,920
analysis, if you will.
And boy does that scale tip in
53
00:02:57,920 --> 00:03:01,040
favor of what is easy and what
is desirable.
54
00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,520
And that got me to thinking.
Sometimes I think we do the same
55
00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:08,240
thing spiritually on several
levels, but especially when it
56
00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,600
comes to things like our
spiritual disciplines.
57
00:03:10,640 --> 00:03:13,760
You know, we might gladly visit
the ones that feel rewarding,
58
00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:17,640
worship, an encouraging sermon
or those moments of answered
59
00:03:17,640 --> 00:03:19,640
prayer.
But maybe we skip those
60
00:03:19,640 --> 00:03:24,120
spiritual houses that feel or
look dark and difficult.
61
00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:28,320
Fasting, self examination,
solitude, perseverance and
62
00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:32,280
prayer, sacrificial service.
Maybe we are choosing those
63
00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,680
sweet practices and maybe
avoiding the ones that don't
64
00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:39,480
give us immediate satisfaction.
But following along with this
65
00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:45,280
metaphor, spiritual maturity
means knocking on every door of
66
00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,440
obedience, not just the ones
that give us the treats.
67
00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:52,200
Luke 16, verse 10.
The one who is faithful in very
68
00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:55,400
little things is also faithful
in much.
69
00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:59,600
And the one who is unrighteous
in a very little thing is also
70
00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,840
unrighteous in much.
Yes, we like the low hanging
71
00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:06,240
fruit, the spiritual equivalent
of candy from a bowl left on the
72
00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,800
porch with a note telling us
just to take one because it
73
00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:13,640
means no knocking, no waiting,
no thank you, no effort
74
00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,640
required.
And when that happens, sometimes
75
00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,200
we look down and we count our
sacks as full.
76
00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:23,600
First Timothy chapter 4 verse 7
says discipline yourself for
77
00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:26,120
godliness.
What blessings might we be
78
00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:29,160
missing out on by skipping those
other houses?
79
00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,560
I'm sure there are many and just
from the top of my head, some of
80
00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:35,560
those might be missing out on a
deeper understanding of
81
00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:39,080
scripture by only diving in at a
devotional level.
82
00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,680
Missing out on the value and the
life changing relationships of
83
00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:46,400
our brethren by treating them
instead as mere acquaintances
84
00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,920
and treating fellowship as an
afterthought.
85
00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:53,240
Maybe missing out on an
opportunity to rely fully on God
86
00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,600
by going ahead and trying it our
way first.
87
00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:01,000
And the list could go on and on.
But my point is, sometimes our
88
00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,160
sacks aren't as full as they
could be because we aren't
89
00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:08,520
taking the time to seek out the
freely given but hard won
90
00:05:08,840 --> 00:05:12,120
blessings of spiritual maturity.
So the next time that you're
91
00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:15,880
tempted to walk past an
opportunity to grow, don't.
92
00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:20,960
Because Jesus tells us to stop.
And and knock, Matthew Chapter 7
93
00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:24,200
verses 7:00 and 8:00.
Ask and it will be given to you.
94
00:05:24,280 --> 00:05:28,120
Seek and you will find.
Knock and it will be opened unto
95
00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,560
you for everyone who asks
receives, and the one who seeks
96
00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,160
finds.
And to the one who knocks, it
97
00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,840
will be opened when those
opportunities come along.
98
00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,520
Don't be tricked into missing
out on God's streets.
99
00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:44,440
Don't skip that house.
Stop and knock.
100
00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,280
Well, those are my thoughts for
your Sunday morning drive.
101
00:05:47,280 --> 00:05:50,240
Now it's time to hear yours.
Our discussion questions for
102
00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:54,200
this week are what are some
reasons that we only seek those
103
00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:57,760
surface level aspects of
Christianity instead of giving a
104
00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:01,000
deeper dive?
How far are we willing to go in
105
00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:05,000
order to receive the richest of
God's spiritual blessings?
106
00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:09,480
And looking back on life, what
areas of spiritual growth have
107
00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:13,240
we missed out on because we were
not willing to apply ourselves?
108
00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:17,600
And I'll throw in an extra what
is the best and worst Halloween
109
00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:19,160
candy?
Let me know what you think.
110
00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,440
I'd love to hear from you at for
your Sunday morning dr.com.
111
00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:25,200
I hope you have a wonderful day
and I'll see you Sunday.
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